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Communication That Strengthens or Strains Relationships: Exploring Classism, Linguistics, and Psychological Jargon

Abby Dougherty
4 min readJan 7, 2025
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Language is not merely a tool for sharing thoughts; it is also a reflection of power, education, and social norms. Exploring the dynamics of classism, linguistics, and psychological jargon reveals how deeply language can influence relationships, either by fostering understanding or perpetuating harm.

Classism, for instance, is a pervasive force in how people perceive and judge others based on their speech patterns, accents, or choice of words. These judgments often stem from entrenched biases about socioeconomic status. When someone’s dialect or accent deviates from what is considered “standard” or “educated” language, they may be unfairly labeled as less intelligent or less competent. For example, individuals who use African American Vernacular English (AAVE) or regional dialects often face discrimination in professional or social settings, even when their communication is clear and effective. This dynamic creates an unspoken hierarchy where certain ways of speaking are valued over others, reinforcing social divides. Within relationships, such biases can undermine trust and mutual respect, as one person’s words might be dismissed or misunderstood due to preconceived notions about their background.

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Abby Dougherty
Abby Dougherty

Written by Abby Dougherty

Abby Dougherty, PhD, loves to learn, and produce scholarship on relational-cultural theory, virtual reality, AI, and using mindfulness in counselor education.

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