Authentic Connection: The Foundation of Effective Teaching

Abby Dougherty
3 min readSep 13, 2023

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Nothing is more important than the relationship; this phrase is considered the foundation of the counseling process and at the core of this relationship is the element of authentic connection, which is foundational to fostering a rich and meaningful learning environment. I want to argue about the significance of authentic connection in the teaching-learning paradigm, arguing that without it, education risks becoming a hollow, mechanistic process devoid of genuine engagement or transformative power.

The Emotional Dimension of Learning

According to Hattie (2009), one of the most potent influences on learning is the relationship between teachers and students. It is through the emotional bond that students become more receptive, engaged, and invested in their learning journey. As the adage goes, “Students don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care” (Rath, 2007). Emotions are inextricably linked to cognitive processes. When students feel understood, respected, and valued, they are more likely to engage in deep and meaningful learning (Pianta, Hamre, & Allen, 2012).

A sign of psychological wellness is whether someone has social support within multiple connecting systems. There is an element of isolation within all suffering; normal development means growing through and towards our relationships across the lifespan (Jordan, 2010). There are now many universities that mirror or actively embrace corporate culture within academic environments. However, these environments may foster a sense of inauthenticity within academic culture, which may make it more challenging for professors to present with authentic presence, and attunement, and develop deep authentic relationships that are necessary for learning.

The Role of Authenticity in Building Trust

Trust is the bedrock of any meaningful relationship, and the teacher-student relationship is no exception. Authentic connection involves teachers being genuine, open, and transparent in their interactions with students (Rodgers & Raider-Roth, 2006). When teachers present themselves authentically, it provides students with a safe environment to be vulnerable, ask questions, and express their thoughts without fear of judgment. Such an environment is conducive to critical thinking, creativity, the development of empathy, mindfulness, and personal growth.

Facilitating Personalized Learning

Every student is unique, with individual needs, strengths, challenges, and aspirations. Authentic connection enables teachers to recognize and celebrate these differences, tailoring their teaching approaches to cater to individual learning styles and needs. By genuinely connecting with each student, teachers can gain insights into their backgrounds, cultures, and lived experiences, which in turn can inform more inclusive, culturally responsive teaching strategies (Gay, 2010). Academic environments employing corporate models should consider adopting a harm reduction perspective, recognizing that implicit systemic inequalities arising from structural power imbalances will differentially affect their employees’ lived experiences.

The significance of authentic connection in the realm of teaching can’t be overstated. As Palmer (2007) insightfully articulates, “The connections made by good teachers are held not in their methods but in their hearts.” By forging genuine, heartfelt relationships with students, educators not only facilitate effective and meaningful learning but also pave the way for transformative educational experiences. It’s crucial for institutions and organizations of all types to foster an environment that champions authentic expression, as it is a prerequisite for genuine learning to take root and flourish.

References

Gay, G. (2010). Culturally responsive teaching: Theory, research, and practice. Teachers College Press.

Hattie, J. (2009). Visible learning: A synthesis of over 800 meta-analyses relating to achievement. Routledge.

Jordan, J. (2010) Relational Cultural Theory. Routledge.

Palmer, P. J. (2007). The courage to teach: Exploring the inner landscape of a teacher’s life. Jossey-Bass.

Pianta, R. C., Hamre, B. K., & Allen, J. P. (2012). Teacher-student relationships and engagement: Conceptualizing, measuring, and improving the capacity of classroom interactions. Handbook of Research on Student Engagement, 365–386.

Rath, T. (2007). StrengthsFinder 2.0. Gallup Press.

Rodgers, C. R., & Raider-Roth, M. B. (2006). Presence in teaching. Teachers and Teaching: theory and practice, 12(3), 265–287.

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Abby Dougherty
Abby Dougherty

Written by Abby Dougherty

Abby Dougherty, PhD, loves to learn, and produce scholarship on relational-cultural theory, virtual reality, AI, and using mindfulness in counselor education.

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